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About me
Welcome, my name is Mesi, I'm a family- and relationship counsellor based in The Hague. If you are not sure about counselling, don't worry. You don't need to know what to say or have a clear goal before starting (but it's also great if you have things in mind already).
My main area is family- and relationship conflicts not limited to romantic relationship, but also child - parent relationship, connection between siblings and other relatives, friendship, connection between colleagues, and employee - employer relation. I have special attention on working with systems as we all belong to different communities and groups, starting with our family and later including school groups, partners, and work colleagues. Besides I promote and support men's mental health, as we struggle at times just the same, and I feel that there are still stigmas and taboos around men reaching out for help.
Below, I give you more information about when is it a good idea to reach out and the type of support I offer.
My approach
I believe that everyone has the key to change their situation, improving and achieving their goals. My role is to help you discover what stops you, what gets you further and to give you the tools that fit you the best, so you can bring out the best in yourself long after our sessions have finished.
When to reach out?
-When you feel stuck and talking with a friend is just not enough.
-When you feel like something is wrong, but you can’t put a finger on it. Or you know exactly, what the problem is, but it feels hard to find a solution and sometimes it can even feel hopeless.
-When you are facing hard decisions, having a hard time saying no, it feels hard to stand your ground in the adult life.
-When you feel like you need support, but somehow you don’t get an unbiased, honest attitude from your environment.
You will have my full attention, support, and problem solving attitude whether you want to:
-recognise blockages
-make lasting changes
-rediscover authentic connections
-leading a fulfilling life
-maintaining fulfilling relationships
-set realistic goals and create an effective daily schedule
-discover insecurities, belief systems and change them to something that serves you
-change, improve family dynamics
-discover transgenerational patterns
-get on your own feet
-feel less alone and be heard
I work with different methodologies, models and visuals tailored to you. Depending on your personality and preference, together we will find the methods that work best for you.
Services and pricing
Standard prices per individual online sessions
Individual counselling session of 60 minutes:
€96 incl. 21% VAT
(€79,34 excluding VAT)
Extended counselling session of 90 minutes:
€144 incl. 21% VAT
(€119,01excluding VAT)
Package prices
Finish the year with clarity!
End-of-year promotion in 2026 between the 21st of October and the 31st of December.
Give yourself the space to reflect, reconnect and move into the new year with greater clarity. Choose the package that suits you the best!
1. The Clarity Package (A starting point)
This is for you, if you want to explore an issue and decide on your next step.
€270 incl. 21% VAT
(€223.14 excluding VAT · 3 × 60-minute sessions)
Includes:
· Three individual online coaching sessions
· A personal reflection exercise after each session
· A short action plan for moving forward
Save €18 compared with individual sessions.
Best for: confidence, a life transition, or one specific relationship challenge.
2. The Better Understanding (Make sense of it)
This is for you, if you feel ready to explore patterns and make more sustained changes.
€525 incl. 21% VAT
(€433,88 excluding VAT · 6 × 60-minute sessions)
Includes:
· Six individual online coaching sessions
· Personal reflection exercises between sessions
· A tailored goal-setting and progress plan
· One 20-minute online progress check-in
Save €51 compared with individual sessions.
Best for: recurring relationship patterns, boundaries, self-confidence, family dynamics, or adjusting to expat life.
3. Stronger Connections (Lasting changes with ongoing support)
This is for you, if you want to work consistently towards meaningful changes in your everyday life.
€850 incl. 21% VAT
(€702,48 excluding VAT · 10 × 60-minute sessions)
Includes:
· Ten individual online coaching sessions
· Personalised coaching roadmap
· Reflection exercises and progress reviews
· Two 20-minute progress check-ins
Save €110 compared with individual sessions.
Best for: clients wanting sustained support with personal growth, relationship habits, family boundaries or major life transitions.
